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Get complete control over your relationships. Be reconciled!<\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t “Social Assessment is the assessment or the evaluation of people to know where they are or why they socially behave in a particular way.”<\/span><\/i> (Rev. Dr Moses Sowale)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t GET STARTED<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t Duval and Wicklund noted in 1972,<\/span> “When we focus our attention on ourselves, we evaluate and compare our current behaviour to our internal standards and values. We become self-conscious as objective evaluators of ourselves.”<\/span><\/i> In other words, when you focus on yourself instead of the environment, you can compare yourself with your standards of correctness. They help you know how you are supposed to think, they are your ideals.\u00a0<\/span><\/p> \u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t GET STARTED<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t A bond is a relationship we create with other people because of shared interests. Travis Hirschi defines it as thus<\/span> “Social bond is the degree to which an individual is integrated into the society.”<\/span><\/i> It is also the binding ties or social bonding to the family.\u00a0<\/span><\/p> It is also very necessary to have boundaries in relationships for the sake of space and to avoid toxic and unhealthy individuals. Creating boundaries helps individuals have a sense of control over their space. Bonds and boundaries among and between people in society is a normal way of life. We create bonds with others, and we also set important or necessary boundaries.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t GET STARTED<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t In this module, the skill of initiating, developing, and terminating relationships will be studied to help individuals understand how and when to get out of toxic relationships, and how to maintain good relationships. To initiate a real relationship, it is better to favour straight-forward, honest, attentive communication. Share your thoughts, feelings, and desires openly and honestly. See if there exists the potential for a fun, compatible match. If there’s no match, it is not a rejection.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t GET STARTED<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t According to Bren\u00e9 Brown in her book, The Gifts of Imperfection, <\/span>\u201cFitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming who you need to be, to be accepted<\/span><\/i>\u201d. Belonging, on the other hand, is deeper than fitting in, belonging lets one express his real nature. Fitting in makes you conform to standards but belonging is when you can be yourself in a group of people and still be accepted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t GET STARTED<\/a><\/p>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t The dictionary meaning of a misfit is a person who is not easily accepted by other people, often because their behaviour is very different from that of everyone else. For example, some people have been made to feel like a misfit because they do not want children. This is because wanting children is something tagged as normal according to society, so if an individual wants or does the opposite, he is seen as a misfit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\tsocial assesment<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
self relationship awareness<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
bond & boundary<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
initiating, developing & terminating relationships<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
fitting in, belonging & connection<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
standing out, out cast or misfit<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t